DEAR READERS: I'm off this week. To tide all of your hot and/or kinky and/or sore asses over, here's a column I wrote 15 years ago. Some newer readers might've missed this column when it originally appeared — those who were still in grade school, diapers or amniotic sacs back in 1998 — so I'm rerunning it because I still get questions about "gerbiling" on a daily basis. — Dan
We were having an office debate about "gerbiling." How does it work? Do all gay men do this? Does Richard Gere? Does the animal get shoved up the anus with a toilet-paper roll only to suffocate seconds later? Is it the scratching or the act of killing an animal that gets people off? Can't this cause serious damage?
Curious Coworkers
Every day, my mail contains at least three questions about "gerbiling." In the eight years I've been writing this column, I have never addressed the gerbil issue, but now I am breaking my silence. Clip and save this column, for I will never discuss gerbils again. Ahem.
To begin, I would like to make a controversial statement: I have never had a gerbil in my ass.
This statement is not controversial in the "Hey! That's uncalled for!" sense, like, say, a woman at a dinner party announcing that she doesn't have a hedgehog in her vagina. That would be uncalled for, because no one would suspect her of concealing a hedgehog. But being a gay man or Richard Gere means always having to reassure people that you don't have a gerbil in your ass. For while gay men and, I assume, Richard Gere don't put gerbils in their asses, not a day goes by that someone — usually a straight 13-year-old boy — doesn't try to shove one in, figuratively speaking. Hundreds of thousands of men and women leave high school convinced that gay men put gerbils in their asses on a semiregular basis.
Gerbil-stuffing is a sexual practice that straight teenage boys in general, and Howard Stern in particular, suspect gay men in general, and Richard Gere (who is not gay) in particular, of engaging in. It works like this: Hold a gerbil in your left hand. Using pliers with your right hand, rip off the gerbil's lower jaw. With the blunt side of the pliers, knock out the teeth in its upper jaw. Pull its legs off. Set aside. Take a cardboard paper-towel roll, grease it up, and insert it into your rectum. Tie a string to the gerbil's tail. Nudge the gerbil into the outside end of the paper-towel roll. If for no other reason than to get away from the person who knocked its teeth out, the gerbil leglessly scampers up the paper-towel roll.
When the gerbil drops into the anal cavity, remove the wet paper-towel roll, leaving the string you've tied to the gerbil's tail hanging out of your ass. The gerbil, now trapped inside your anal cavity, thrashes around, desperate for air. It is this thrashing that provides pleasurable sensations. Once the gerbil is dead, remove it by pulling on the string. Repeat.
Okay, three things:
1. The type of straight person who believes that gay men engage in "gerbiling" is likely to believe other gay stereotypes: We're all prissy little swishes, for instance, with clean apartments and collections of original Broadway cast recordings. Yet the same person who believes gay men are prim sissies also believes we're capable of holding a struggling rodent while ripping its lower jaw off, and then tearing its legs off and stuffing it up our butts — hardly a prim pastime.
2. There is nothing intrinsically "gay" about gerbil-stuffing. You don't need two penises — you don't need penises at all — or an original Broadway cast recording. All you need is one doomed gerbil and one willing butthole (and pliers, lube, tubes and string). Some straight people have a peculiar need to believe certain sex acts — usually disgusting ones — are practiced only by gay men, despite evidence to the contrary. This curious impulse extends to sex acts straight people themselves are the primary practitioners of. Child rape, for instance.
3. Inserting a wet cardboard paper-towel roll into your ass is simply not possible, as anyone who's ever put anything in their ass can tell you.
I feel I can write with some authority that no one has ever actually stuffed a gerbil up their butt. I've had conversations with hundreds of outrageously kinky people, who've told me the craziest shit: I once chatted for an hour with a guy who married his horse. (He was deeply offended when I asked if his horse was a he-horse or a she-horse. "I am not a homosexual," the horse-fucker informed me.) Both in my professional and personal life, thousands of guys have admitted to doing the most out-there, dangerous, stupid, kinky stuff. But not once has anyone ever told me that he, or anyone he knows, has ever put a gerbil in his ass. Like the doomed gerbils themselves, this story has no legs. It is an urban legend.
And I have proof. If gay men and Richard Gere stuffed gerbils in their butts, then the pet stores that serve the gay and Richard Gere communities would stock gerbils, right? Everything else that a perverse gay man needs is available in your average gay neighborhood, from poppers to butt plugs to bullwhips to sofa sectionals.
But guess what? In San Francisco's Castro neighborhood, gay ground zero, the pet store Petpourri sells only pet supplies — no gerbils. And they don't stock cardboard paper-towel tubes or pliers, either. Animal Farm in West Hollywood, also a very gay place, sells only dogs and cats (which wouldn't fit up anyone's butt, not even Richard Gere's). And not only do pet stores in California not sell gerbils, but it's actually illegal for them to do so.
According to Marshall Meyers, an attorney at the Pet Industry Joint Advisory Council in Washington, D.C.: "California law prohibits the sale of gerbils because of desert conditions in that state. Gerbils were once a desert mammal, and the state was concerned that gerbils could escape and establish themselves in the wild."
It's not because gay men stick them in their asses? "No, it's strictly an ecosystem issue."
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